For too long, settler* cultures have colonised our senses of reality. Now, it is time to unsettle
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Hiya! I am Dilan.
I offer reality-bending services for those feeling trapped in the structural, emotional, psychic or physical realities of pain, disconnection, injustice or oppression.
I work with artists, healers, dissenters, killjoys, dreamers, activists, sex workers, writers, witches, poets, philosophers as well as trans-, ace, and queer people of all backgrounds.
Join me in recalling the mystical nature of real reality
In a world of ecocides, genocides, rising authoritarianism and exploitation, we are told that hate, fear, power, and suffering is what is real and that the law is the survival of the fittest. Magic is consistently dismissed as subjective superstition.
But…
What if real reality is lovingly magical?
What if most of what we have been told about reality is a lie invented by cultures invested in accumulation, conquest, and empires?*
What if actual reality is more-than-human, uncomputable, deliciously layered, and mysteriously entangled?
What if the real law is love…uncontrollable, paradoxical, liberating love?
Research increasingly uncovers this real reality of loving magic. But in a world bent on rewiring you out of magic…
Shall you believe? Shall you surrender your grip on what you have been told is real?
bend reality by experiencing trance, an altered state of consciousness; or, dreaming. explore the edges of reality as the conscious mind relaxes and forgotten stories emerge to aid transformation with any challenge that you are facing. guided by the land (including water and sky) spirits. personalised 1:1 sessions available online or in-person in Hackney, London.
address physical and emotional pain or isolation with loving touch. no lengthy talks needed. reality-bending transformations with quietly communicative touch that recalls your connection with the land. rooted in consent. individually-tailored sessions available in-person in Hackney, London.
bring human families and friends together with more-than-human families and spirits to mark a major life event, season or breakthrough. community is a significant aspect that roots and grounds our reality-bending experiences, aiding the passage of new realities from dream-time into manifest-time. regular ceremonies help strengthen the connection with community and shape the sustainability of reality-bending. Affordable ceremonial facilitation is available in person in London and across the UK upon request.
join me for a divination session concerning a situation of your interest. the session is collaborative and introspective, not ‘predictive’, since free will is real even when limited, and real reality is not fatalistic but formed of a multiplicity of agential possibilities. consent and confidentiality shall always be respected. 1:1 sessions are available online.
* Throughout this website, ‘settler‘ refers to cultures that objectify land(s), which includes air, water, soil, minerals, plants, fungi, animals etc., by denying its multi-agential sentient intelligence and treating it as resource or property. Settler cultures also see humans are separate from the land, resulting in an orientation whereby it is possible for humans to ‘settle’ or ‘settle on’ the land; instead of being a part of it. This separation is needed because settler cultures treat land(s) as an object to accumulate, conquer, exploit, civilise, and establish empires. As a result of this , the objectification and colonisation of their/our bodies, minds, and spirits is incessant and inevitable. Even as some modern Western settler cultures deny the reality of magic, settler cultures as a whole promote and deploy magic as control; magic as control is settler magic. Settler languages also lack vocabularies to express concepts or worldviews outside of settler cultures, making settler realities appear natural, normal or unproblematic due to the prevalence of settler laws and languages. Simultaneously, settler societies harbour great sickness and isolation, injustice and exploitation, but all this is treated as unrelated to their primary relationship of objectification of the land. These patterns of settler cultures are noted all over the planet today, not limited to Australia and the Americas; and include Europe and Asia, exhibiting acute consolidation within Western Europe, where settler cultures are rampant.
